I (23M) was sitting on a bench drawing and a girl sat on the same bench, then she started talking about my drawings, I said a few words about them, but I started to feel that I was getting very nervous, and after some phrases i just stood up and walked away to another part of the park. A few minutes later I saw her heading my way again. But when she saw me her face became sad and she turned around and walked back the other way. Now i feel so awful about all this ,I didn’t mean for this to happen but it kinda did. I want to ask people any advice of how to overcome this fears so this is not happened again. For the context i didnt have any genuine converstation with girls in 8-9 years, and i didnt have this problem with males
You are right, but i was just afraid because she was a female, and as a said i didnt have any interaction with women in 8-9, except formal ones, like in university or stores and etc. i think you get it. And the thing is i dont know why was i feeling that much nervous when she started talking to me, but i want to overcome that and i dont really know how…
It’s ok to be afraid and still do something. Challenge yourself to try a question, people love to talk and that means you don’t have to.