Ephebophilia is when an older adult is sexually attracted to post-pubescent teenagers or adolescents—usually those in the age range 15–19. Adults with this attraction are called ephebophiles.
So if a 30 year old man or a 30 year woman masterbates to an 18 year old pornstar everyday. They’re by definition an ephebophile.
And it’s not morally wrong a 30 year old man or 30 year old woman to have sex with an 18 year old as long as the 18 year old is consenting to it.
I don’t care about society shaming me for me prefer to have sex with 18 year old woman. If society wants to call me a ephebophile for that’s to totally fine. Because that what I am by definition. But I will not tolerate anyone call me a pedophile because pedophiles especially the one that actually go out of their way to abuse prepubescent childern are immoral.