• RBWells@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        If you have one crazy ex, you have one crazy ex. If you have all crazy exes, you ARE the crazy ex. But if you have no crazy exes but a bunch of relationships that didn’t work out I’d want to make sure you aren’t their crazy ex.

    • Reddfugee42@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      It’s a much bigger red flag if they hate everyone they’ve ever broken up with. That’s just childish. So your shit didn’t work out? Shake hands and walk along. They still have the good traits that made you consider them in the first place.

      • radicalautonomy@lemmy.world
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        1 month ago

        It’s a much bigger red flag if they hate everyone they’ve ever broken up with.

        “And what’s the common thread here?”

        I find it very promising when someone I date, when they reflect on a past relationship, are willing to admit the mistakes they made which led to the breakup and highlight the positive steps they’ve taken to rectify those shortcomings to become a better person and not cause future partners the same hurt. Very sexy, that.

      • azalty@jlai.lu
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        2 months ago

        Yea sure, but you don’t have to be close to them and still be friends. Just move on