• deur@feddit.nl
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      1 year ago

      Definitely not if they’re young / stupid enough to take it personally!

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        1 year ago

        There will never be a time in which your children are cool with you telling them that you wished they’d never been born

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          1 year ago

          I kind of disagree, I would completely understand if my parents said that. Maybe it’s because the math is so clear to me.

          • iamtrashman1312@lemmy.world
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            1 year ago

            Same. I was born five months after they were married. I know I was an accident and that I financially taxed them as a baby. Saying “I regret having you” doesn’t have to mean they regret having you so much as when or how they did. I bet my folks would have liked to wait, lol