Okay can someone please point me to a real, physical, existing example of this happening? I’ve got multiple accounts on multiple instances from when the servers I used were less stable and not once on any of them have I ever seen a single person defended Russia or China politically.

Not trying to be divisive it just comes up a lot and at this point feels like a red scare tactic

I can only speak for myself but I wouldn’t really mind it the other way around as long as there’s no implied use of force or manipulation.

IMO either party doing this is fine as long as it’s discussed and within the comfort bounds of the people in the relationship.

I think the problem is an expectation when there has been no discussion about whether or not it’s within someone’s limits.