Yeah man, it’s normal to be proud of not participating in bad things. Are you going to argue that car-centric infrastructure, over-consumption of meat, and billionaires hoarding wealth aren’t bad things?
I’m not car-free or vegan. There’s not much these people could say to convince me to become one. I already agree with them, I just don’t have the fortitude to live the theory despite them being objectively correct. In their position I imagine it’s frustrating to interact with people like me. Even moreso people who don’t understand their views to the point that they’ll say that their whole identity revolves around opposition.
I don’t use a smartphone because I don’t want to contribute to the monopolistic social medias. People often take as a very noteworthy part of my character and want to talk about it. Many people probably even think of that as the “main thing” about me. However, that’s only because that’s the thing they tend to remember. They probably haven’t seen me out busking, making things out of leather, or doing programming projects. If they did, that’s not as unusual so they aren’t as interested. However, as soon as I put my phone on a table at the pub that’s what they remember and we start talking about because people are interested in things that are different.
Did you know Michael Phelps is an avid golfer? Most people don’t because most people only know a few things about most people. This is made even worse when people are judgemental and turn up their noses at people they claim are “virtue signaling” and refuse to ever get to the point where they know the person.
Your view that most people’s identities revolve around opposition is interesting because it seems that view mostly comes from the groups opposing the ones you mentioned to me. Car people have a weird hatred for cyclists, meat eaters for vegans, wealthy people tend to hate the poor, claiming them to be the authors of their own poverty because they’re not willing to admit they’re causing harm.
At some point you have to accept that many things you do harm other people and accept that. I eat meat despite it being immoral and admit that. It’s not healthy to lie to yourself.
Yeah man, it’s normal to be proud of not participating in bad things. Are you going to argue that car-centric infrastructure, over-consumption of meat, and billionaires hoarding wealth aren’t bad things?
I’m not car-free or vegan. There’s not much these people could say to convince me to become one. I already agree with them, I just don’t have the fortitude to live the theory despite them being objectively correct. In their position I imagine it’s frustrating to interact with people like me. Even moreso people who don’t understand their views to the point that they’ll say that their whole identity revolves around opposition.
I don’t use a smartphone because I don’t want to contribute to the monopolistic social medias. People often take as a very noteworthy part of my character and want to talk about it. Many people probably even think of that as the “main thing” about me. However, that’s only because that’s the thing they tend to remember. They probably haven’t seen me out busking, making things out of leather, or doing programming projects. If they did, that’s not as unusual so they aren’t as interested. However, as soon as I put my phone on a table at the pub that’s what they remember and we start talking about because people are interested in things that are different.
Did you know Michael Phelps is an avid golfer? Most people don’t because most people only know a few things about most people. This is made even worse when people are judgemental and turn up their noses at people they claim are “virtue signaling” and refuse to ever get to the point where they know the person.
Your view that most people’s identities revolve around opposition is interesting because it seems that view mostly comes from the groups opposing the ones you mentioned to me. Car people have a weird hatred for cyclists, meat eaters for vegans, wealthy people tend to hate the poor, claiming them to be the authors of their own poverty because they’re not willing to admit they’re causing harm.
At some point you have to accept that many things you do harm other people and accept that. I eat meat despite it being immoral and admit that. It’s not healthy to lie to yourself.