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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • You are wrong. Pretty sure you are also self enforcing your own bias onto the llm. Devs choose a technology and work within even if the LLMs are not trained properly on it. We recently switched from svelte 3 to 5 with runes and the LLM answers for it are hot steaming garbage. Needs a lot of pre promting and thinking out loud to produce desired results. We would to think of going back to the stone Java ages and switch to react.






  • I have long suspected that its a techies responsibility to take care of their immediate friends and family in regards to self hosting. SoiI usually offer that service for free to my extended family. I usually tell them they have to rely/trust someone, might as well be me and if it weren’t them I would charge customers X money for that service monthly. So it becomes a gift and something personal and they feel taken care of and when the dreaded “help me with my email” call comes you just pop open their account without trying all the password on that crusty sticky note and look into it. I especially love those “they claim they didn’t get that email” calls. Pop open the log and send the excerpt of their server accepting the email to the claimant and boom number one of all the standard excuses is done for. I once saved my mums job that way.








  • I have never had problems meeting women. But i have the same anxiety taking to women in intrigued by. I learned to remember that women also want company and feel anxiety and giddy when meeting someone attractive. It might even be a safety thing that you need time to get closer to someone so both sides can feel safe and comfortable. I learned to carefully watch people without staring. They will eventually notice and their reaction will tell you pretty clearly if they find you attractive. And there is somebody for everybody believe the middle aged balding dude with the broken marriage. Now if you find someone equally interested you should be hanging around them, so find a non creepy excuse to spend time in their proximity. That’s where all the talk of finding groups to join comes from. Maybe she is as shy as you are, try to imagine how she might be feeling. So you both need time to find your way through that. With time and ample opportunity one or both of you with inch closer and it starts with short eye contacts and maybe one or two words exchanged.

    The most important thing to realize is that most women even if attracted might not be the perfect situational match, so don’t latch on and try to force the situation. Just keep your eyes peeled, enjoy the process as it usually gives you confidence and always be your honest and kindest self towards you and others. Kindness and honesty is much more attractive than looks. Opportunity will eventually present itself and well… Love finds a way :)





  • Depending on financial ability and culture (financially able and Germany). There is a benefit to give children the opportunity to establish themselves from the ground up to learn responsibility and consequence. As soon as they reach that spot, you can start supporting them in things other than education and advice. At the time they need a house and or start a family, real support is needed and they might need it. Later in life its their responsibility to take over family finances other than what money you need for retirement. Ideally they will at this stage manage some more than your parents gave you at the time. (Zero in my case)

    OP: the only thing I would change with your approach is to give your child the opportunity of independence and self fulfillment before giving them everything they need. Also there might be a benefit if he learns that some money is earned harder than other. So he understands poor people have it a lot harder because they don’t have parents as financially able as you. This is also a hedge against hardship after you are gone. They need to learn to handle life if they are down on their luck alone.