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Cake day: July 19th, 2023

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  • Have empathy for the injustices others face. It helps you let go of hate

    This is a big one, though I have a more nuanced view.

    “That is a fucked up thing and shouldn’t happen to anyone. I couldn’t give two shits about that person in particular because they’re a piece of shit, but what is happening to them is unacceptable.”

    That’s how I feel about bad shit happening to horrible people in prison. A serial rapist gets raped in prison? Unacceptable. It shouldn’t be allowed, and everyone responsible should be held to account. However, I lack the necessary empathy to feel for that serial rapist. I try, but there’s a lot of people out there suffering more who did nothing or less that I should care about, and I have a limited amount of care. Doesn’t mean I’m okay woth prison rape, though.






  • I’ve always wondered about this, because not only are they not mutually exclusive, they don’t really fight unless someone really wants to create an issue.

    “It turns out the Earth revolves around the Sun, which in turn rotates around a galactic center.”

    “But we’ve been teaching that the Earth is the center of the universe. What will we tell people?”

    “Well, we all thought it was the center, but it turns out it wasn’t. Does anything in your religion specifically say we’re the center?”

    “No…”

    “Then I guess we all found out together. Also, why are you even teaching stuff like that? The movement of celestial bodies seems a weird topic to be discussing in church.”





  • It’s used for bad things, but there’s nothing wrong with the term and is generally good practice.

    Get some sun, but in moderation.

    Help people, but in moderation (don’t set yourself on fire to warm others. In other words, practice self-care)

    Eat in moderation.

    Exercise in moderation.

    Play video games in moderation.

    Hell, brush your teeth in moderation. Don’t strip the enamel brushing 8 times a day.

    Work in moderation.

    Doom scroll in moderation. (stay aware, don’t get to the point of crushing sense of despair)

    Basically, most things are best practiced in moderation. And if one feels compelled to do harmful things, doing them in moderation can help mitigate the damage.