Yes Asian culture is very different from European

I have anxious attachment problem so I don’t get into relationships until I am absolutely sure

Is it okay to call it a relationship if it’s only two months? Wouldn’t it be like some fwb thing right?

Thank you🥺

Tell me no woman talks to you without telling me no woman talks to you

Thank you 😊 you’re very kind

Even if it doesn’t last, i would prefer it over losing it in a one night stand. Hope that helps

I understand

Are you calling me immature asshole?😳

Makes sense. I’ll try to communicate it with him respectfully

Very sad and bad situation

Why should I not continue being friends with him and only meet on social occasions where our other mutual friends are also present, just like the old times? Breaking up a friendship over nothing?

He’s paying for every date even when I offer to split. I even mentioned I am not looking for dating in my current city because I am moving, but he still asked me out on another and also asked about the places I would like to go, he would take me.

If he’s not looking for a romantic partner, which I mentioned in the post he’s not. Why would he bother doing all this? Just for a friend?

Why would I lie? I have no benefit in portraying Japanese men as good fathers lol. I just told you what I noticed

I am pretty sure about the sex part and I don’t have any desires to do it with him even if I find him attractive. I would only feel aroused if I have romantic feelings for him so I don’t think he can change that

I have clearly mentioned in the post that I don’t want to sleep with him, I am a virgin and want to save my first time for a long term relationship

Some kids fathers and some kids mothers

He never asked for a reason. Bringing it up myself out of nowhere would make him think I am narcissistic who assumed he’s in love with me. Or maybe I am just overthinking

Thank you very much! He never asked me to go on a trip with him and honestly I would say no if he did. He offered to pay but I offered to split the bill. When he refused, I bought dessert for both of us, I hope that made it atleast subtle that I am not trying to use him for his money, in any way

So should I just ask him directly that why is he asking me to hangout with him one on one? What are his intentions? Will he not be offended?