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Cake day: October 17th, 2025

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  • Style is a display and telegraphing of your personality.¹

    Also, unless you’re ace, you probably want her to think you’re hot. You know how you like when a lady knows how to clothes good and dresses up and looks really fucking hot?

    She wants something roughly equivalent, but has given up and dismissed it as fantasy.

    If you wear something very fancy, it doesn’t just say ‘I am fancy’ it says ‘this is what I think is fancy, and I’m confident enough to wear it around and take the risk’.

    Like, you wouldn’t expect the same behavior and relationship from punk leather jacket guy, lumberjack, bard, thinks-hes-a-wizard, business-devil, and the guy wearing a silk button down hentai print shirt with a first-Doctor-scarf aviator goggles mirror shined shoes but fully donald-ducking it. Would you?







  • Okay but consider this black leather jacket to go with, or some accessories so you don’t get mistaken for a tech bro. Maybe a mixed fabric panel to show that region you’ve been working out? Vest or unbuttonable portion?

    Or pants of some sort to go with it? Maybe?

    I’m not straight, I dont even like you people, but for fuck’s sake learn to dress yourselves so I dont need to console my (often hot) straight friends or hear their absolutely heartbreaking ‘he used conditioner and owns two pairs of jeans in different styles!’ Exclamations of joy.



  • Yeah if it’s exactly zero effort it’s fine, but asking others or shaming them for not is counterproductive.

    Unless you think you can somehow reason with billionaires¹ there us precisely one way out and we need to stop pretending anything else will help until that is done.

    If you are not a killer, you are not helping the climate.

    ¹you can’t. People have tried and it did not go well. That’s why we have such a bunker boom!)


  • Because someone said they had to have a program and they just kind of did the bare minimum.

    Because they meant well and hired a company to do it, and dumping was ehat they were set up to do.

    Because they meant well, and then found out facilities didnt exist or there was a liability issue that made them skittish but the program had already been in campaign ads so constituents still had to see the bins, but the city would just be putting them wherever…





  • Not more effective. When one party hordes power and refuses to negotiate, and wants you to die or is committed to a course of action that will with certainty kill you ¹ there are two choices: violence and suicide.

    I’m pretty okay with either option, but please dont pretend suicide is anything else. Like my natural apathy does tend to put me on team suicide, but people lying about it who start to panic when they can’t lie to themselves anymore are really fucking up my chill.

    ¹lucky us; we get both