I’m glad for you that you were lucky to have such friends

I used to own a business with employees. It was a small company objectively, but in a small town where I’m from that was a HUGE deal.

The company survived COVID, but due to total chaos with supply chains that happened after covid, my business got on hard times. I saw the writing on the wall, and started firing my employees and closing the company in order not for things to get any worse. I closed my company and landed a job in another company; a never missed a single salary.

It’s absolutely shocking how quickly everyone drops you once they hear you’ve gotten on “hard times”. All my friends, relatives, in-laws… EVERYONE drops you like you’re burning pile of shit. Want to call an old friend for drinks? You’re out of luck, nobody is taking your calls anymore, because now you’re a “failure”.

And let me repeat once again that I haven’t gotten into any BIG trouble, just closed everything down before it did actually SHTF. It’s just the optics of “being in a bad place” and poof everyone’s gone! You’re on your own now.

Oh boy yes. It’s absolutely brutal how quickly everyone drops you once you hit hard times.

No, and that’s a good thing.

To quote John Water: “If 8 milion people like it, then it’s probabbly not good”.

Exactly. Most men tend to stop celebrating their birthdays in their early teens.

Yeah, there’s a certain age after which you kinda stop caring about your own birthday.