this woman who was very emotionally abusive towards me (think a racist regina george) was really upset and taking it out on everyone, apparently people are now seeing how rude she is and hardly anyone likes her.

idk whether i should feel bad

  • LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe
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    4 months ago

    Some people play the victim no matter what. Probably a narcissist. These people are beyond help.

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      4 months ago

      i’d assume she is, since she also pulls the “don’t leave me for these other people. they hate you, I heard them say it. they don’t understand you like I do, they think you’re different. an animal. they hate your disabilities” and also that she can never be wrong and nothing is ever her fault. suggesting someone might be better/at her level can throw her whole day off and cause her to hate everyone for daring to criticize her.

      if she’s criticized, she goes quiet (probably mad). if she’s humbled (someone is more talented than her), she calls them slurs depending on if they’re a minority. like my friend is black and was more talented than her which humbled her, so she said “fuck you n*****r b*tch”

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    4 months ago

    I know someone like this. Usually “being mean” just means that they aren’t bending to her will.

    To hell with her.

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      4 months ago

      she called a friend of mine a “b*tch”, presumably because said friend wouldn’t spend time with her.

      these people are nice to your face (and sometimes not) but will talk behind your back. also, they’re so quick to discard you but then lovebomb again.