Off-topic:
I’m always tempted to write it out. The word is in everybody’s mind while we read the text. It gets so powerful if people talk around it. Like some super villain who can’t be mentioned. But if the context is not hurtful, it’s just a word. It becomes an insult if the mind of the one who says it or the one who reads it decides to make it an insult. Which would obviously not be the case here.
Well, that’s how I feel about it.