• theneverfox@pawb.social
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    1 day ago

    I mean you might be right, but I imagine the martyr thing could go either way

    Just putting myself in their shoes, it probably won’t feel nice having their dad constantly praised for doing what they saw him die doing

    Plus, Charlie Kirk was more hated than loved. There’s no putting them so deep in a bubble that they aren’t confronted with that fact

    Kids tend to either follow or reject their parents beliefs… I’m not sure what this kind of trauma does to that, but I’ll bet it’ll make it more extreme

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      1 day ago

      For their sake, I hope you’re right.

      e: and, putting myself in their shoes as a child whose father was both prominent and absent (though not dead), I idolised him well into my 30s. Raising a teen boy finally disabused me of his sainthood. He’s still the most remarkable man I’ve ever met, but he’s also fallible.
      If he’d been dead, I may never have been forced to accept he’s human.