Like she said “just come with us and the “喜氣” is gonna get rid of your depression”

Holy shit wtf?

Last time I went 2 hours to some stupid holiday family gathering dinner thing, it was MISERABLE, and my aunt’s kids be drooling over the fucking food and it was nasty as fuck, I think I got food poisoning last time.

Like I don’t even know this random cousin lol, we don’t even live in the same city, why the fuck did they even invite us to be a guest in their stupid wedding ceromony, like, I ain’t your friend lol. I don’t wanna go and have a panic attack wtf.

Fine, you believe your shit, I’m Jesus’s second son then, and I’m gonna lead people to create God’s kingdom (/obvious sarcasm)

What the fuck. Is there mass hysteria right now? How do these people exist? Wtf.

Honestly, this probably explains people supporting conservatism.

Like do I go to this stupid thing so I can prove my mother wrong? I’m gonns get more anxiety after this stupid event.

Like I don’t even like the cuisine, last time I went to a cousin’s “Sweet 16” when I was a kid, I HATED IT, the food SUCKED.

I don’t know how your “soul clensing” spiritualism is even supposed to work when the reality is, I will have a panic attack.

Sorry for the rant, I’m just so… bewildered at this stupid belief of “soul clensing” what the fuck?!?

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    Idk whats up with your mum but you should be attending weddings you are invited to

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      I was invited to a wedding and didn’t attend, because, just like OP, it would have been detrimental to my health. So while I agree with the sentiment, if you’d put yourself in harms way, stay at home. It’s best for everyone involved, since you probably wouldn’t be a great guest either, and that’s okay.

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        Why would going to a wedding affect anyone’s health in either direction? I guess covid?

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          No? It’s an invitation. I’d have been disappointed if people I’d invited turned it down, but it’s not rude to decline.

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            I mean we’re just arguing opinions at this point. Plenty of people perceive declining to attend a wedding rude. It can be seen as disapproving of the marriage. Particularly if this is a close friend or relative. You better make absolutely sure that the couple knows you are happy for and supportive of their marriage should you decline a wedding invitation.