FORD is talking about the people they love, where they spend most of their time, and what they’re excited about. RAPE is a list of topics that are frequently contentious and that people are bad at having productive conversations about (also don’t talk about rape)
Typical advice for this is talk about FORD:
and avoid RAPE:
FORD is talking about the people they love, where they spend most of their time, and what they’re excited about. RAPE is a list of topics that are frequently contentious and that people are bad at having productive conversations about (also don’t talk about rape)
The version I heard was Recreation rather than Relationships. Find out what they do for fun, whether it’s gardening, concerts, or disc golf.
I’m sure there’s multiple versions, that’d be good too. It’s mostly just getting people to talk about things they like in their life
OP didn’t ask for advice.