• MrShankles@reddthat.com
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    2 days ago

    Who would? But it’s real and in our face. Learning how to process is healthy, avoidance is not

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      2 days ago

      You don’t need to “learn to process” to know the truth. You don’t have to personally witness every horrible thing that’s happening.

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        1 day ago

        Knowing and understanding are not equal, just as instruction and guidance aren’t. Processing knowledge helps to bring understanding my friend. I’m not saying you’re wrong; I’m saying not everyone does it like you, and that’s ok

        Maybe you process faster; maybe you’re skimming the details to save personal harm. Maybe the way you do things isn’t a hard truth, but samely, doesn’t make your recommendations invalid. I just would personally change my wording from a place of “don’t do it”, to a place of “I wouldn’t, but that’s me”. Otherwise you risk depriving the wisdom of life from others, due to your own personal fears

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          1 day ago

          I didn’t say “Don’t do it”. I said “You don’t have to watch the videos.”.