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  • I have tried to get my point across before, but was labeled a transphobe. I have no issue with trans people and wish them all the best in their pursuit of happiness. I understand the issue they face: Society put them in one of two gender categories, and they don’t feel that’s where they belong. That’s a valid issue in my eyes.

    I just don’t really see the current approach fixing this. Its like we saw that there was an issue with racism, but instead of abolishing it, we added more categories like “race-fluid”.

    In my eyes, the root issue is the concept of gender identities, and how big a role they play in our day to day lifes. Why does the way people address me (sir/madam, he/she) depend on my gender identity? Why does every form I fill out ask for my gender identity? Why are so many things separated by gender?

    I’d like to see a post-gender society, where we don’t need pronouns. Where there is no concept of gender identity, because everyone is just themselves.

    Instead of staying inside the box, adding classification after classification, I think we should leave the box and stop assigning a gender identity to every one of us.


  • Lemvi@lemmy.sdf.orgtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldVegans at the gym
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    22 days ago

    I’m annoyed by the notion that our bodies somehow need animal protein to build muscles. What we need is a specific mix of amino acids. Animal proteins generally provide a similar mix, but that just means that eating meat is the easy route. It is definitely possible to mix plant proteins to provide our bodies with everything they need (at least in terms of proteins).

    And honestly, I’m just tired of animal suffering, man.




  • I just went after the first thing that sounded interesting, then the next, then again. It was quite a bumpy ride.

    I ended up with a job that I really like, but that might be more thanks to luck than anything else, so I don’t know that everyone should follow my example.

    I do have some advice though:

    • If there is something you really want to do, try and pursue that first. If you don’t, you’ll always wonder how it would have gone
    • If you have never worked before, try that before going to uni. Maybe try an apprenticeship. I found that the practical experience grounded me quite a bit.
    • Do not be afraid to change career paths. You may feel a pressure to stick with what you chose. And it certainly is necessary to just tough it out at times. On the other hand, you are still young, and will still be pretty young in ten years, so don’t sweat it too much, and try something new if you find that the current thing doesn’t work.

    Some dimensions you may want to consider for any potential profession:

    1. How much do you think you would enjoy it?
    2. How much of a positive impact would it have on others?
    3. How much would you earn?
    4. How easy would it be to find a job? How easy could it be to automate your work in the future?

  • I am not defending US imperialism, just criticizing a double standard.

    Imperialism is a state seeking to maintain and/or extend power over other states. That is exactly what China is doing with Taiwan. Of course, unequal exchange is also a form of imperialism.

    Imperialism is when you have a civil war.

    That’s just wrong. What is true though is that civil wars more often than not are influenced by foreign powers trying to influence them to their own benefit.







  • It’s really more of a contract, “I promise to carry and raise your children, you promise to provide the money” That’s why throughout much of history, you couldn’t get divorced, it wasn’t about love, it was about security.

    Nowadays marriage isn’t really as important as before, but still relevant. For women, having a child usually still means making career sacrifices.