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Cake day: March 26th, 2021

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  • Slatlun@lemmy.mltoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.worldOnline Dating (2 questions)
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    21 days ago

    It feels bad when you put in time and thought without any response. That’s not their fault. It isn’t your fault. Something didn’t jive and that was a miss for both of you.

    There is no expectation. Just like you don’t have to respond to me here. Actually, I take that back. The expectation is that they (and you) will only engage their own (or your own) terms. Neither of you owes the other anything.

    What would I do? I would take no response as a hint and back off entirely. Matching carries absolutely no obligation to respond to me.












  • I think the best bet would be following recipes. That means finding recipes that minimize ‘to taste’ instructions. A lot can be done by look and texture, so you can be decent enough for anyone who’s not a snob. Also, err on the side of too little salt and put some on the table.