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  • Same with indigenous people on turtle island (north america).

    I’d argue that it doesnt really count since the concept of ‘country’ though is more colonial in its origins so realistically, a ‘country’ wouldn’t exist until after colonization in these areas.

    Nations might’ve existed with different groups/tribes/villages sharing a culture, but the concepts of clear-cut borders, strict land ownership, and nationalism (which to me are a requirement for the concept of a “country”) are significantly different in many indigenous cultures as compared to colonial states. Maybe with the exception of some Latin American empires? Though I don’t know enough about those empires to be confident in that.




  • I don’t… Hahaha this is one of the things I most often speak to my counsellor about though and I’m working hard on it.

    My issue is more around productivity (achievements), so what I work on is doing things for the sake of doing them, not for the final product, i.e. doing art for the process or even playing a game just to play and not for literal achievements. Learning to just enjoy things for the process or just doing ‘nothing’. They suggested I could just come home and sit and watch my cats and… Just do nothing. I’m still working on that one.

    We haven’t gotten that far into external validation, but I think learning to have compassion/love for yourself helps with that.









  • Some cats are a bit balder there, it can be normal and it can be a health thing. My mom’s cat has a big belly bald spot and the vet says its cause she grooms it too much, but the vet wasn’t able to tell us why she is doing that. My own cat just has a little less hair there naturally ¯\_(ツ)_/¯