• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    1 day ago

    I think I got the nuance behind ‘bigoted man I disagree with is actually a woman because women amirite?’.

    I’m trans, and like actually hate these people, they deserve ridicule. However, if I’m willing to tolerate bigotry on my behalf towards people that are in some out-group, there’s no guarantee that some day I won’t be among that out-group and subsequently targeted by that type of bigotry. Do you understand the issue I’m raising?

    I can’t tolerate people misgendering Caitlen Jenner or Blair white because while they suck, it only contributes to an environment where that type of insult is then considered acceptable.

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        18 hours ago

        You’re the type to get weirdly sexual and homophobic when it’s people you disagree with. Not really interested in what you have to say tbh.

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            18 hours ago

            You’re the type to get weirdly sexual and homophobic when it’s people you disagree with. Not really interested in what you have to say tbh.

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                17 hours ago

                you don’t seem like you handle people disagreeing with you well. you’ve already called me schizophrenic because I had an issue with your history of homophobic comments, only to be like “well they’re people I don’t like politiclly so it’s okay”

                that was my original point, so thank you for demonstrating the behavior I guess

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                    9 hours ago

                    Clicking on your moderation history is not stalking, it’s literally right in the drop-down next to block user for me, and that was all right the top of your history.

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                    All I said was that I don’t like seeing misogynist, homophobic transphobic, or sexual insults being used against even my enemies, because that’s not behavior I would want to condone in my allies, or in spaces I participate in.

                    You seem to have an enormous chip on your shoulder, judging from your response to a trans woman giving her opinion on the matter. Your response was saying I’m mentally ill and a stalker for pointing out your past homophobic and aggressive behavior that’s publicly visible and extremely obvious.

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      19 hours ago

      I think I got the nuance behind ‘bigoted man I disagree with is actually a woman because women amirite?’.

      Nope.

      It goes like this: ‘bigoted man is bigoted because this will aggravate his orange tits. If bigoted man was not bigoted it would not be possible to rip on him like this.’

      Put another way: ‘I am a bigot, said John.’

      If that doesn’t clarify it then I’m out of patience to explain further.

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        I made the mistake of trying to converse with that user. Their history doesn’t indicate they are a full time troll, but on these kinds of topics, they certainly are. And I remember them also defending infamous banned troll UniversalMonk on multiple occasions, if you remember that guy.

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          That’s cool I don’t need hear any more explanations.

          Edit: worth noting that nowhere in this thread does this user talk about how language they don’t like feels to them. They just repeatedly state what it “is” condescendingly. And then they intentionally troll people pushing back on that. Funny enough, they accidentally confirmed they are trolling by admitting they are an ESL but then insisting on what expressions mean and sealioning me about them.