ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 5 个月前What sounds like a double standard but isn't?message-squaremessage-square82fedilinkarrow-up172arrow-down16
arrow-up166arrow-down1message-squareWhat sounds like a double standard but isn't?ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 5 个月前message-square82fedilink
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down3·5 个月前I have no kids. If the purpose of the mother’s group is for mothers to share their problems then I have nothing to offer.
minus-squarenomy@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down5·5 个月前Why assume you have something to offer them when the opposite is likely truer.
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down2·5 个月前I don’t think I have anything to offer which is why me not being included is fine. That’s the whole point.
minus-squareqarbone@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4arrow-down4·5 个月前Idk if even they have understood the position they’re taking. Their “Why should I be barred from taking advantage of anything that might benefit me?” vs Your “I am have nothing to give and no way to meaningfully help, so I’ll stay out.” Is very telling.
I have no kids. If the purpose of the mother’s group is for mothers to share their problems then I have nothing to offer.
Why assume you have something to offer them when the opposite is likely truer.
I don’t think I have anything to offer which is why me not being included is fine. That’s the whole point.
Idk if even they have understood the position they’re taking.
Their “Why should I be barred from taking advantage of anything that might benefit me?”
vs
Your “I am have nothing to give and no way to meaningfully help, so I’ll stay out.”
Is very telling.