• mellowheat@suppo.fi
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    8 months ago

    Being gay doesn’t make you … well, anything except gay. Perhaps a larger percentage of them are liberals though due to obviously selfish reasons.

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      Being gay and Republican makes you an idiot. Republicans fought tooth and nail to oppose gay marriage and used all sorts of awful dog whistles around the gay community - there’s still a large contingent of Republicans that are fighting against gay marriage and, of course, they openly demonize another LGBT+ group every fucking day.

      I know gay Republicans exist but it’s fucking baffling.

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        Like the anti vaccine movement, many have forgotten the horrors of the past and feel like they can just discard the things that got us to where we are.

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          Just like how fascism is back. Generations die off, and (particularly if we don’t educate), people forget.

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                Nah. The generations that live through such trauma (such as the horrors of nazi Germany just as an example) and witness it first hand are the ones who work the hardest to make sure it doesn’t happen again. But once you’re a couple generations removed from it, that memory fades, and the ones in power stop caring as much about preventing it because they just never lived it. History always “repeats itself” for a reason.

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        Yeah, it seems pretty a bit off. Perhaps those people have lots of old money or something, enabling them to just completely ignore haters?

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          That’d be the Peter Thiel approach… you know, the famous scumbag gay man who famously lobbied against gay marriage.

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      Selfish reasons like wanting to be treated like human beings politically? Get married? Adopt kids? Get wedding cakes at bakeries without being shut out? Those kind of selfish reasons?

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          I’m not gay.

          I’m not buying wedding cakes.

          I’m not adopting.

          CIS WASPs already own politics.

          Yet here I am, liberal.

          It is possible to care about other people and their problems without those problems being yours as well.

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              If you don’t care for my personal anecdote, why did you ask again as if I could answer differently? Go ask them yourself.

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                Your anecdote isn’t very relevant here since you aren’t gay. All you’re saying is that you can be liberal without being gay or having other issues directly affect you.

                What they are asking is, if those issues do affect them, is that the reason they are liberal? An obvious answer is, if it matters to them more than other things then yes. I imagine personal identity and personal freedom matter very much for most people, but it may not be the highest on the list.

                Unsurprisingly, things aren’t black and white.

                It’s certainly weird to see people championing for things that will actively hurt them though. Like black people trying to join the KKK.

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                I’m trying to get you to see that the nature of the reasons are not what the selfishness was in reference to but rather their scope of caring. A hard right republican woman can think that she deserves to have an abortion herself but if she doesn’t care if that extends to others then she is selfish. If the percentage that mellow was talking about are only liberal because the issues listed impact them then that does kinda seem selfish. It is not a commentary at all about the rightness or wrongness of those issues.

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                  Trying to get me to see…?

                  Then you should she stated your case and avoided trying to be clever by asking the same question twice in some bizarre effort at a philosophical take, to what…make yourself appear smarter? To a question you’ve already answered for yourself? Ridiculous.

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                    Or you could have answered the question I asked instead of offering an irrelevant personal anecdote.

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      You likely mean “reasons of self interest” instead of “selfish reasons,” since you don’t appear to mean the statement with negative connotations.