Mine was from my mother: “Never cry for a man. He’ll never cry for you.”

  • Scott@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Dad was teaching my sister and I to cross the street and told us to look both ways.

    We were crossing a one-way road at the time and I asked “Do we need to look both ways on a one-way road?”

    He said “People are idiots, you look both ways.”

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      8 hours ago

      Good advice, and by extension also the fundamental of defensive driving - assume every other driver on the road is crazy or incompetent.

      • Just because someone is signalling to turn, it doesn’t mean they will
      • Just because someone isn’t signalling to turn, it doesn’t mean they won’t
      • Assume people will run red lights
      • Assume people will jump on the brakes for no reason
      • Assume anyone will change lanes at any time without even looking

      I’m sure my driving got a lot safer from thinking like that

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      2 days ago

      This summer. Twice. Crossing a one way street just as a car goes zooming through in the wrong direction

      And its corollary. Never assume a red light will stop the cars. Always look.

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      Also very helpful when you travel to countries with left-hand traffic (or right-hand traffic depending on which way you are used to). The first couple days cars are constantly coming from the wrong side.