This is not said with any kind of malice to the trans community, I respect my trans homies. But literally no one gives a shit about dudes.

  • Ileftreddit@lemmy.worldOP
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    2 days ago

    I haven’t asked directly if they care, but anytime I try to explain anything related to a possible emotional state I might be experiencing I tend to get shut down really hard? Or people just ignore it completely

    • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
      6·
      2 days ago

      Some guys have no interest in being anything but the manliest man they can manifest, and maybe I’m wrong, but I think there’s a lot of us who are just waiting for someone to break the ice.

      I have a very good friend who started making it a habit to tell me he loves me, and dammit, I’ll say it right back because I do love him like a brother. I don’t love my other friends less, but, that shame that hides in my brain tells me I can’t do that to them.

      I’ll sneak it in the group chat. Let’s all try to open that door for each other!