• EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com
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      4 hours ago

      They might be better at the “talking to people” part of it.

      I’m a short dude (like 10th percentile), which the internet has made very clear is a problem. But I’m decent at talking and very appealing to a certain subset of women.

    • Warl0k3@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      Have you considered that maybe it’s you? Like, you’re going to have to work on yourself to get to the point that you can pull on a dating app, there’s no “secret” you’re missing that you can add and magically you’re gonna land the babes. You’re just… not attractive. You can improve that, but it takes work.

      So, I guess there is a secret: Putting in the work to make yourself attractive.