I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.
That’s what I thought personally, there were some nice-guy incel posts being posted here, and I’m open about what I used to be. God knows when I was younger I was looking for guidance, I can’t imagine looking now and seeing all those “alpha male” bros on the internet, it probably is tempting. They’re saying all the easy answers, that it’s women’s fault, that you just gotta be more manly.
I’m proud of what this space is, where we can be open and honest, and I hope that the person who inspired the post reads through this. It is not the easy path, but it’s the best path forward.