The good thing about forgiveness is that it doesn’t have to be actually granted in order for the person to see the errors in their way and meaningfully repent. Works the other way too, you don’t have to forgive anyone for anything ever (though that can arguably be harmful to yourself).
can you imagine trying to repent and make amends for this one, and every loved one of that asshole is just as bad as they are.
The good thing about forgiveness is that it doesn’t have to be actually granted in order for the person to see the errors in their way and meaningfully repent. Works the other way too, you don’t have to forgive anyone for anything ever (though that can arguably be harmful to yourself).
The emotional strain might drive one to drink again…
Forgive me God and Parole Officer, there’s something I must do.