I hear “No problem” far more often.
I don’t care.
Time to adopt a jaunty wink, finger guns, and a hearty “You got it, sport!” as the default response. What could possibly go wrong?
It depends on how I feel. 90% of the time I don’t want sone one to feel obligated so no problem is my response. When its truely a favor I am helping with its your welcome. When i would have done it for my own sake I want to say “my pleasure” but mostly say “of course!”.
You’re welcome comes off as passive aggressive. I was forced for years to say you’re welcome when I never really meant it, but when I say no problem or no worries I actually mean it so I still use you’re welcome but I might as well be saying go fuck yourself
Fifteen years ago when I was traveling around California and Nevada, I was weirded out at how sales people responded to “thank you”. They either said “yup”, “ok”, or stayed silent. I assumed it was a regional thing.
In central and eastern Canada, we say it.
i usually hit 'em with the classic “of course” or “anytime” because you’re welcome feels too formal for most situations
I think “you’re welcome” is just too formal. I would say it to a customer, not my friend.
I just say, “Uh-huh!” Or “Yeah!” Like an idiot.
Personally, I like to make an assessment of my feelings toward the favor done. If I feel put upon, I give an “mhmm” or “yup”. My enthusiastic response is usually “no problem!”
“You’re welcome” implies you can ask for favors anytime, day or night, and feels a bit too prostrate. I’ll say it to some people, but it almost feels like an “I love you” type of response, and I reserve it for when I really mean it.
While we’re at it, what’s up with young people saying “bless you”? I kinda thought that one would have fallen off with people under 35
I feel the opposite actually. I say “no worries/problem” when I’m trying to communicate that the task was not a burden and that the person isn’t bothering me if they ask again. I say “you’re welcome” to acknowledge that I went out of my way to put effort in for them and that I appreciate their appreciation.
It’s definitely more personal, like if I said thanks for a gift and they said no worries, it would feel a little transactional (for me).
If someone thanks me for my open source code, I’m going to say “you’re welcome” because I’ve put many hours in primarily to improve their experience. If one of the more senior devs in my community asks me clarify something in my documentation and says thanks I’m going to say no worries because I would’ve done that anyway if I was aware of the issue. Honestly in that case I’m going to thank the dev for pointing me to the issue.
There aren’t many good replacements that I’ve seen for bless you
I’m sure I get considered rude once in a while, but I just don’t acknowledge when people sneeze.
We don’t acknowledge virtually any other noise that other humans make outside of normal conversation. I’m on the boat of sneezes are just another weird noise we make, there’s no requirement to acknowledge them.
This isn’t the middle ages anymore where a sneeze had way different implications related to illness and death. And I don’t know of any faiths that truly believe the old “soul leaving your body” ‘origin’ story either.
Yes it does actually imply that: you incurred no loss of status, nor debt, for this thing.
It’s for situations where the “favor” could be provided a thousand times without issue.
It’s for situations you totally don’t mind repeating, such as when you’ve provided a cup of coffee for a customer.
“No problem” is more appropriate for situations where it actually would be an imposition to repeat that favor. Like, your neighbor wakes you up in the middle of the night asking to use your hose to put out a little fire in his back yard.
“I’m so sorry to wake you. That was dumb of me. I should get my own hose …”
“No problem. I’m gonna go back to bed now”
Where I am from, saying thank you doesn’t warrant a response. It’s certainly something I heard when I took a trip to New York though.
I usually like to run away when someone says “thanks!”
I like a hearty “No, thank YOU!” and let the feedback loop begin.
My sister noticed in 1995 that Americans almost universally reply to ‘thank you’ with ‘uh huh.’
I can’t not hear it when I visit now,
We’re embarrassed that the little effort we managed to produce on this obviously good day of the depression cycle was worthy of thanks, so we’re trying to scuttle away from what feels like praise.
You’re welcome to use language however you want, regardless of what the algorithm decides.
you can say “you’re welcome”, its no problem
you can also say “no problem”
hope this helps, you’re welcome
I always go with ‘No worries’ or ‘All good’, because ‘You’re welcome’ feels too formal for everyday conversations, plus as another comment mentioned it’s a generational thing as well
“Sure”
See it’s not that “You’re Welcome” is too formal, I just can’t say it without almost breaking out into this.… Now it just almost sounds sarcastic
yer welks, guv’nor
“You’re welcome” is too much of a commitment for me. What if I don’t want to help next time but already told the other party they were welcome to my help? Formally revoking that welcome sounds really awkward.
“No problem” is just more honest because it keeps the scope to the current episode. Unless it was a problem but I’m glossing over it to just end the episode, in which case it’s still better than “you’re welcome”.
