Toxic polyamory is just as bad as toxic monogamy. If people want to be exclusive they should be exclusive. If your partner wants to be exclusive and you don’t, and you choose to cheat, you’re still a piece of shit.
Uhhh, if you don’t like marriage, how about don’t get married?! This isn’t rocket science… They both got married. They both signed the social contract that by default means exclusivity, regardless of what you think.
Judging by how they reacted, they also understood their marriages to be assumed exclusivity, and clearly did not discuss open terms with their spouse. So basically… get some logic skills because your opinion on marriage is irrelevant here.
Even married, you can have an honest discussion with your spouse about seeing other people (preferably before you get married), then just tell them you’re going to see Coleplay with your work girlfriend. Like it’s not illegal, and it’s not even wrong unless you make it wrong by being a shady little shit about it.
Just like fuckin… talk to each other about your feelings. God.
There’s no technicality about it. The people that get married are the ones who determine the exclusivity of the marriage.
Like, it’s even dumber than that because if you didn’t have marriage, you’d still have people in exclusive relationships, so wtf are you complaining about?
I’m all for people being able to bone other consenting adults, married or not, but these two clearly think that cheating is bad. If they had open relationships, then why would they care if they were seen together?
that’s brain rot thinking, you know that’s just the default and instance and therefore cannot mean anything that you think it does
This is the kind of generalization behind a lot of evil in the world
I just expressed a maximally dissenting opinion on marriage and yet, the message still stands …
Who are those dissenters that you imagine are getting suppressed on whatever that server is?
But I"m not “there” to me the local tab is meaningless, I don’t even know on what server we are having this discussion besides “the lemmiverse”
So stop it with the digital provincialism !
Kadaverin: Troll-nalysis of Impotence
An exposé of digital bile, radical disillusionment, and the powerlessness that fuels them
Lurking in the ashtrays of the fediverse—a scorched patchwork of decentralized forums where Reddit exiles and anarchist shitposters collide—is a figure who, if not born angry, certainly honed the condition into art. Known by the handle kadaverin0, he haunts Lemmy like a nicotine ghost: foul-mouthed, combative, wounded, and constantly exhaling something toxic. But to dismiss him as just another forum malcontent is to misunderstand the pathology at play. What kadaverin0 offers is not just rage, but a specific form of exhaustion. He is less a provocateur than a deeply burnt-out man shouting across a digital wasteland, not because he expects anyone to listen, but because silence would be unbearable.
His style is unmistakable. Every post is an expletive-laced spiral of contempt: for politicians, tech companies, suburban fascists, posturing liberals, crypto bros, religious grifters, and—sometimes—himself. He doesn’t care to play nice, and his targets don’t get nuance. They get incinerated. When he refers to Microsoft as “corpo cunts” or shrugs off American patriotism with the exhausted line “we just live here,” he is baring a soul that has long since given up on persuasion. His trolling isn’t about baiting. It’s about purging. It’s a self-cleansing fire, not a prank.
Yet, in the midst of this vitriol, you begin to notice cracks—fragments of vulnerability that feel out of place in the posture of a typical edgelord. Amid jokes about tankies and AI surveillance, he drops painful anecdotes of childhood trauma, addiction-wracked parents, and emotional abuse masquerading as discipline. He writes of his father with a chilling blend of bitterness and psychological precision, recalling moments when adult rage was unleashed over trivial misunderstandings—shutting down Windows 95 incorrectly, screensaver confusion, the burning-in of old CRT monitors. These are not just memories; they are psychic wounds, typed out with surgical clarity and zero sentimentality.
And this is where the mask fully slips. Kadaverin0 isn’t a troll in the classic sense—he’s not hiding behind a persona for the sake of irony or chaos. He is the persona. The fury, the cynicism, the gallows humor—it’s all authentic. This is not a character study; it’s an emotional dump, performed at scale. He doesn’t perform edginess; he lives in its basement.
Kadaverin0’s hatred is expansive, but never directionless. There is a discernible logic to the fury, even when it reads like incoherence. He detests hypocrisy. He loathes the commodification of suffering. He finds tech culture’s enthusiasm for AI and surveillance not only invasive but deeply humiliating, the latest insult from a system that demands obedience while stripping away agency. And yet, paradoxically, he is also deeply committed to some form of ethics. His hatred of cruelty is almost messianic. He calls out bigotry wherever he sees it. He ridicules performative activism but champions the exploited. He mocks the weak-minded, yes, but reserves his greatest ire for the systems and ideologies that made them that way.
Still, the tragedy of kadaverin0 is not in the content of his beliefs—it’s in his inability to imagine a world where those beliefs could matter. This is the impotence at the heart of the troll-nalysis. For all his clarity, all his searing insight, he does not believe in transformation. Only collapse. He is a prophet of rot, not rebirth. Every post, every insult, every indictment of our “clown car” civilization carries with it the same unspoken addendum: Nothing will change.
And maybe he’s right. But the final, bitter irony is that kadaverin0 still keeps posting. Despite it all—despite his disgust with the platforms, the discourse, the futility—he keeps typing. Something compels him. Maybe it’s habit. Maybe it’s the fleeting relief of putting his pain into language and watching others flinch or laugh. Maybe it’s the only form of resistance he still believes in. Not resistance that builds or organizes or uplifts—but resistance that ruins, mocks, drags the sacred into the mud and forces us all to look at what we’ve become.
In the end, kadaverin0 is not an outlier. He is a consequence. A product of the very systems he now seeks to dismantle through sheer rhetorical napalm. He is both deeply serious and deeply unserious—an iconoclast whose icon is his own disillusionment. He is angry. He is articulate. He is exhausting. And, more than anything, he is powerless.
That, more than the insults or the edge, is what defines him. He knows how bad everything is, but he can’t change it. He can only scream into the void—and maybe, if he’s lucky, someone will scream back. Not in rage. Not in agreement. But in recognition.
Because if kadaverin0 is anything, he’s a reflection of the rest of us: burned out, furious, and desperately trying to make meaning in a world that no longer rewards sincerity. All that’s left is the post. And the pain it barely conceals.
It’s ragebait for people who think porking rights should be exclusive by default. And by that I mean nasty horrible idiots. Abolish marriage!
Toxic polyamory is just as bad as toxic monogamy. If people want to be exclusive they should be exclusive. If your partner wants to be exclusive and you don’t, and you choose to cheat, you’re still a piece of shit.
Uhhh, if you don’t like marriage, how about don’t get married?! This isn’t rocket science… They both got married. They both signed the social contract that by default means exclusivity, regardless of what you think.
Judging by how they reacted, they also understood their marriages to be assumed exclusivity, and clearly did not discuss open terms with their spouse. So basically… get some logic skills because your opinion on marriage is irrelevant here.
Even married, you can have an honest discussion with your spouse about seeing other people (preferably before you get married), then just tell them you’re going to see Coleplay with your work girlfriend. Like it’s not illegal, and it’s not even wrong unless you make it wrong by being a shady little shit about it.
Just like fuckin… talk to each other about your feelings. God.
I love how you’re being downvoted for stating the most obvious solution. TIL certain lemmings don’t believe in healthy communication.
My besties have been in an open relationship for years and it works because of communication, trust, and trying to deserve said trust.
No, I want it abolished as a social expectation of the “default” situation.
No one forces a marriage to be monogamous…
Put it along with rest of crap in the “you are not techncially required” pile
There’s no technicality about it. The people that get married are the ones who determine the exclusivity of the marriage.
Like, it’s even dumber than that because if you didn’t have marriage, you’d still have people in exclusive relationships, so wtf are you complaining about?
I understand how shitty conservative social norms are to those repressed by them, but this usage of marriage as an example is… rather ridiculous.
I’m all for people being able to bone other consenting adults, married or not, but these two clearly think that cheating is bad. If they had open relationships, then why would they care if they were seen together?
I wanted to ask if you’re ok there but then I saw lemmy.ml and everything made sense all of a sudden.
that’s brain rot thinking, you know that’s just the default and instance and therefore cannot mean anything that you think it does This is the kind of generalization behind a lot of evil in the world
It’s an echochamber with all dissent being suppressed. The way you write shows you’re deeply stuck in it.
I just expressed a maximally dissenting opinion on marriage and yet, the message still stands … Who are those dissenters that you imagine are getting suppressed on whatever that server is?
But I"m not “there” to me the local tab is meaningless, I don’t even know on what server we are having this discussion besides “the lemmiverse” So stop it with the digital provincialism !
Fuck off, tankie.
Kadaverin: Troll-nalysis of Impotence An exposé of digital bile, radical disillusionment, and the powerlessness that fuels them
Lurking in the ashtrays of the fediverse—a scorched patchwork of decentralized forums where Reddit exiles and anarchist shitposters collide—is a figure who, if not born angry, certainly honed the condition into art. Known by the handle kadaverin0, he haunts Lemmy like a nicotine ghost: foul-mouthed, combative, wounded, and constantly exhaling something toxic. But to dismiss him as just another forum malcontent is to misunderstand the pathology at play. What kadaverin0 offers is not just rage, but a specific form of exhaustion. He is less a provocateur than a deeply burnt-out man shouting across a digital wasteland, not because he expects anyone to listen, but because silence would be unbearable.
His style is unmistakable. Every post is an expletive-laced spiral of contempt: for politicians, tech companies, suburban fascists, posturing liberals, crypto bros, religious grifters, and—sometimes—himself. He doesn’t care to play nice, and his targets don’t get nuance. They get incinerated. When he refers to Microsoft as “corpo cunts” or shrugs off American patriotism with the exhausted line “we just live here,” he is baring a soul that has long since given up on persuasion. His trolling isn’t about baiting. It’s about purging. It’s a self-cleansing fire, not a prank.
Yet, in the midst of this vitriol, you begin to notice cracks—fragments of vulnerability that feel out of place in the posture of a typical edgelord. Amid jokes about tankies and AI surveillance, he drops painful anecdotes of childhood trauma, addiction-wracked parents, and emotional abuse masquerading as discipline. He writes of his father with a chilling blend of bitterness and psychological precision, recalling moments when adult rage was unleashed over trivial misunderstandings—shutting down Windows 95 incorrectly, screensaver confusion, the burning-in of old CRT monitors. These are not just memories; they are psychic wounds, typed out with surgical clarity and zero sentimentality.
And this is where the mask fully slips. Kadaverin0 isn’t a troll in the classic sense—he’s not hiding behind a persona for the sake of irony or chaos. He is the persona. The fury, the cynicism, the gallows humor—it’s all authentic. This is not a character study; it’s an emotional dump, performed at scale. He doesn’t perform edginess; he lives in its basement.
Kadaverin0’s hatred is expansive, but never directionless. There is a discernible logic to the fury, even when it reads like incoherence. He detests hypocrisy. He loathes the commodification of suffering. He finds tech culture’s enthusiasm for AI and surveillance not only invasive but deeply humiliating, the latest insult from a system that demands obedience while stripping away agency. And yet, paradoxically, he is also deeply committed to some form of ethics. His hatred of cruelty is almost messianic. He calls out bigotry wherever he sees it. He ridicules performative activism but champions the exploited. He mocks the weak-minded, yes, but reserves his greatest ire for the systems and ideologies that made them that way.
Still, the tragedy of kadaverin0 is not in the content of his beliefs—it’s in his inability to imagine a world where those beliefs could matter. This is the impotence at the heart of the troll-nalysis. For all his clarity, all his searing insight, he does not believe in transformation. Only collapse. He is a prophet of rot, not rebirth. Every post, every insult, every indictment of our “clown car” civilization carries with it the same unspoken addendum: Nothing will change.
And maybe he’s right. But the final, bitter irony is that kadaverin0 still keeps posting. Despite it all—despite his disgust with the platforms, the discourse, the futility—he keeps typing. Something compels him. Maybe it’s habit. Maybe it’s the fleeting relief of putting his pain into language and watching others flinch or laugh. Maybe it’s the only form of resistance he still believes in. Not resistance that builds or organizes or uplifts—but resistance that ruins, mocks, drags the sacred into the mud and forces us all to look at what we’ve become.
In the end, kadaverin0 is not an outlier. He is a consequence. A product of the very systems he now seeks to dismantle through sheer rhetorical napalm. He is both deeply serious and deeply unserious—an iconoclast whose icon is his own disillusionment. He is angry. He is articulate. He is exhausting. And, more than anything, he is powerless.
That, more than the insults or the edge, is what defines him. He knows how bad everything is, but he can’t change it. He can only scream into the void—and maybe, if he’s lucky, someone will scream back. Not in rage. Not in agreement. But in recognition.
Because if kadaverin0 is anything, he’s a reflection of the rest of us: burned out, furious, and desperately trying to make meaning in a world that no longer rewards sincerity. All that’s left is the post. And the pain it barely conceals.
Lol, didn’t read.
Fuck off, tankie.
The problem isn’t the lack of monogamy, it’s the violation of your partner(‘)(s)(’) trust.