• HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com
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    No no no. In public restrooms better to leave the seat up so that when people pee standing up the toilet water droplets don’t get on the seat.

    I pee standing up in public and know the mess it can cause.

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    3 hours ago

    Can people do what they need to do without anybody policing them? Seat up or down who cares?

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    If men have to put down women have to lift up. Morality is when the same logic is applied to the other side. Otherwise your being sexist and prejudice.

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    Extremely silly post. Reactionary gender war nonsense. Everyone can and does and should sit down, that’s why it’s unisex. It’s not that complicated. Stop hitching your identity and ego to the way your dad told you to piss.

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      This is a shit take literally. Why would I sit down to pee if I don’t have to? That’s more contact with the gross toilet.

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          I have. Men with bad aim. Skill issue.

          One possible fix is adding a urinal target. I’m sure you could implement a similar concept in a regular toilet.

          A urinal target, sometimes known by the specific types urinal fly or urinal bee, is an image or mark placed inside a urinal to encourage users to aim in a particular place so as to avoid messes and reduce cleaning costs.

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    If this was a male-only bathroom I’d still totally agree with the content of the sign.

    If you want to pee standing, use the urinal. I, as a man, don’t enjoy sitting in some other person’s pee either.

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    I once jokingly mentioned to my wife that leaving the seat up is just as convenient for me as leaving it down is for her. To which she pointed out that, of the four different permutations of toilet use between us, 3/4 require the seat to be down, so all in all, it makes sense to leave the seat down.

    And dammit, I had to marry a logical autistic, didn’t I?

    So now I always (try to remember to) leave the seat down.

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      I mean, it’ll be less than 3/4 if you always stand to pee, because people pee more often than they poop (of they hydrate sufficiently and there’s no health issue). But it’ll still definitely be over half, so the result is the same.

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      7 hours ago

      I tend to sit down to pee most times (at home), so that ratio is even higher for us…

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    8 hours ago

    This is all personal preference. There is no issue to discuss here.

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    If you properly close a toilet seat/lid, everyone has to open it before using it, I don’t see what the big deal is

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    I never understood the whole “you left the toilet seat up” complaint. Never been an issue in my family but have heard “he never puts the seat down” all the time. Is it that much effort to put the toilet seat down when you need to go?

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    Soft close toilet seats should be standard equipment.

    Then putting the lid down is a matter of a single light push.

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    Did you know this isn’t a discussion at all in most of the world? People do whatever and no one is bothered by it. I only ever see this in American media.

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      8 hours ago

      I had a cat that trained me to sit down to pee.

      The only time I could ever get her to purr was when when I was sat on the toilet. So, of course, I began sitting down to pee in order to maximise her purring and fusses. And it kinda stuck.

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      I’ve been to men’s restroom before. I wouldn’t sit on that unless extremely necessary. Even then, I’d wipe that ship clean and cover it in toilet paper first

      I do wonder if they all sat whether that’d solve it, though. That is, if it’d be cleaner. Or maybe they don’t need to sit to keep it clean. Idk

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        I’ve worked maintenance for many years and I can assure there is no difference between men’s and women’s rest rooms other than there being urinals, they’re all disgusting, we’re all disgusting, all bathrooms are just wild animal shit houses.

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          From my experience, it depends on where. Malls and things like that where there are many people of all different demographics absolutely are equally disgusting. Semi-private washrooms tend to be less disgusting overall, but women’s are usually at least a little cleaner. Standing to pee causes splashes. Enough human traffic and and the whole place smells like a hamster cage that doesn’t go away unless the whole damn bathroom is flooded in sanitiser.

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          Really? I’d expected cleaner. I mean, they sit. I don’t know how women pee, honestly. Like, how the flow goes. But I can say from experience peeing into a toilet while standing up can be difficult. Pee, y u no single stream straight into toilet?

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      nooooope not putting my cheeks on that unless necessary

      seat up, squat a bit, and aim to reduce splash. wipe when done no matter what it looks like

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      18 hours ago

      Men that pee standing up (except urinals, or bushes) just like to make their life a tiny bit worse for no reason at all.

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    23 hours ago

    I’m a woman and will leave the seat up at work (not at home)

    We have unisex toilets and truck drivers use them - they regularly wee all over the toilet seats if left down :(

    • mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca
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      19 hours ago

      if there is a lid - always down

      if there is no lid - always up

      it is the safest, cleanest, fairest option

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      18 hours ago

      we just leave it down at home. we talked about it one day and everyone with male excretory parts just wants to get off their feet. only time the seat lifts is for cleaning.

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      I’ve thought of this so many times. I’m fact, I’ve thought about a spring-loaded seat hinge that raises the seat unless there’s a person upon it. If the seat is always up, it is much less likely to be urinated upon. It takes the work completely out of the hands of the user.

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    16 hours ago

    Invent a new urinal and demand everyone use a shewee-like thing (for aim purposes). Now everyone can enjoy the satisfaction of peeing standing up and we can get rid of all gendered restrooms.

    Now what, maga?